
Nouns, nouns expressions
a dating app, a blind date, chemistry, a green/red flag, ghosting, love at first sight, matchmaking
Verbs, phrasal verbs
to ask sb out, to be single/engaged/married, to break up/split up, to cheat on sb, to court sb, to date sb, to dump sb, to get on, to get to know sb, to go out, to hug, to propose to sb
Verbal expressions
to be in love with sb, to be on good terms, to fall in love with sb, to be engaged, to get divorced, to get in touch, to get married, to go on a date, to have an affair, to have a fling, to have a lot in common, to hold hands, to lose touch
People in relationship
an acquaintance, a boyfriend/girlfriend, a couple, a crush, a (blind) date, an ex, a fiancé/a fiancée, a husband/wife, lovebirds, a partner, a soulmate
Idioms, set expressions
to be a match made in heaven, to be head over hills in love with sb, to be on the rocks, to be on the same wavelength, to be out of one’s league, to have a crush on sb, to have a soft spot for sb, to go the extra mile for someone, to go through a rough patch, to play hard to get, to tie the knot
More phrasal verbs
to fall for sb, to fall out, to hit on sb, to hit it off, to lead sb on, to make out, to set sb up
Exercises
1. Arrange the events in a logical order.
We went on a few more dates.
He proposed to me.
We got on really well, we hit it off.
We fell in love at first sight.
We got married and lived happily ever after😊
I downloaded a dating app.
I had a crush on a guy.
We started going out.
He asked me out.
2. Match the words to their definitions/synonyms.
Nouns
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1) a red flag |
a) a date with someone you have never met |
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2) ghosting |
b) the activity of arranging romantic relationships between people |
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3) a blind date |
c) a warning sign of toxic behavior |
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4) a dating app |
d) disappearing without explanation |
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5) matchmaking |
e) an online dating service |
Expressions, idioms
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1) to have an affair |
a) to understand each other very well |
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2) to be engaged |
b) to have formally agreed to marry |
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3) to be on the same wavelength |
c) to have problems in a relationship |
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4) to play hard to get |
d) to make a special effort please sb |
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5) to be on the rocks |
e) to engage in a secret relationship |
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6) to go the extra mile for someone |
f) to experience a difficult time. |
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7) to go through a rough patch |
g) to pretend that you are less interested in sb than you really are as a way of making them more interested in you |
Phrasal verbs
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1) to go out |
a) to hit it off, to be on good terms |
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2) to make out |
b) to have a crush on sb |
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3) to break up |
c) to split up |
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4) to get on |
d) to date |
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5) to fall for sb |
e) to kiss |
3. Take a look at the love quotes, choose the ones you like/agree/disagree with and comment on them.
‘Better to have lost and loved than never to have loved at all.’
Ernest Hemingway, an American writer
‘In dreams and in love there are no impossibilities.’
Janos Arany, Hungarian poet
‘Fortune and love favour the brave.’
Ovid, Roman poet
‘If you can make a woman laugh, you can make her do anything.’
Marilyn Monroe, an American actress
‘Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down.’
Oprah Winfrey, an American TV host
‘You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.’
Buddha
‘It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages.’
‘In true love it is the soul that envelops the body.’
Friedrich Nietzsche, German philosopher
4. Complete the sentences with the following idioms.
play hard to get, going through a rough patch, tie the knot, on the same wavelength, go the extra mile for, out of your league, head over hills in love with
- We’re having kind of a family crisis. We’ re … I just hope we’ll figure it out at some point.
- He’s crazy about you. He keeps talking about you and your future plans together. He’s … you.
- No offence but this girl’s …, man. She dates only very rich guys.
- You may play games, pretend to ignore him and … But if you’re destined to be together, he’ll like you the way you are.
- What I love about us is that we often understand each without words. We’re …
- This is so pathetic. He’ll … but you won’t even return his calls.
- Young people from western countries don’t tend to … early. They focus on the careers first.
5. Answer the personal questions.
- Have you ever been on a blind date?
- Is matchmaking a good idea? Has someone ever set you up with somebody?
- What are the red flags for you?
- Do you believe in love at first sight?
- Why do you think people resort to ghosting?
- Have you ever used dating apps?
- Would you go on a date with someone you don’t really like/don’t have a soft spot for?
- How long do you think it is good to go out before getting engaged/married?
- Is it okay to have an affair if you’re married?
- Is it possible to get on and keep in touch with an ex?
- Do you know a couple you would call a match made in heaven?
- Is there a person you’re on the same wavelength with? Do you believe in soulmates? Remember when you hit it off with
- Do you think it helps to play hard to get sometimes?
- What types of people do you fall for?
- Do you think it is okay if a woman makes the first move and hits on a man?
Funny modern dating terms

Benching
a dating tactic when a person keeps other people in their orbit as backup plans while they focus on a primary relationship, bearing in mind they have other options if things don’t work out.
Breadcrumbing
sending flirty, infrequent messages to keep someone interested without any real intention of dating.
Groundhogging
dating the same ‘type’ of person again and again, expecting different results, even though you know they are wrong for you.
Pocketing
not introducing a partner to their friends or family, ‘keeping them in their pocket’.
Shrekking (dating down)
dating someone you are not physically attracted to intentionally, with the expectation that they will treat you better than someone more conventional.
Situationship
a romantic relationship that lacks clear, defined labels or boundaries.
Zombieing
a situation when someone who previously ghosted you suddenly reappears months later as if nothing happened.
Materials used:
https://www.mentalfloss.com/language/slang/modern-dating-related-slang-words-to-know
https://www.psychologytoday.com/
AI Overview
Links to related materials
Videos
1. 6 Tips for Successful Dating
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V0vW9Uzk-k8
Reading
Funny modern dating terms
Vocabulary with definitions
Nouns, nouns expressions
a dating app – an online dating service presented through a mobile phone application.
a blind date – a date with someone you have never met.
chemistry – a strong mutual attraction.
a green/red flag – a sign of a healthy relationship/ a warning sign of toxic behavior.
ghosting – ending a relationship by stopping all communication without explanation.
love at first sight – the experience of starting to be in love with someone as soon as you see them for the first time.
matchmaking – the process of pairing people, introducing to each other for dating or future marriage.
Verbs, phrasal verbs
to ask sb out – to invite someone on a date.
to break up/split up – to separate.
to cheat on sb – to be unfaithful.
To court sb – to actively show affection to a person with the explicit intention of forming a committed, long-term relationship.
to date sb – to go out with.
to dump sb – to break up with sb (informal).
to get on – to have a good relationship.
to get to know sb – to meet.
to go out with sb – to be in a romantic relationship.
to hug – to embrace.
to propose to sb – ask sb to marry.
Verbal expressions
to be in love with sb – to love sb.
to be on good terms – to get on, to have a good relationship.
to fall in love with sb – to start loving sb.
to be engaged – having formally agreed to marry.
to get divorced – legally dissolve one’s marriage.
to get in touch – start communicating.
to get married – to legally or formally become husband and wife.
to go on a date – to meet someone for a romantic engagement.
to have an affair – to engage in a secret romantic or sexual relationship with sb other than one’s partner.
to have a fling – to have a short-term, sexual or romantic relationship that lacks deep emotional commitment.
to have a lot in common – have a lot of shared interests or characteristics.
to hold hands – to keep someone’s hand in your hand, for example to keep them safe or to show that you care about them.
to lose touch – cease to be in communication.
People in relationship
an acquaintance – a person one knows slightly.
a crush – someone who you like a lot romantically, usually someone that you do not have a relationship with, or not a serious relationship.
an ex – a former husband, wife, or other partner in a relationship.
a fiancé – a man to whom someone is engaged to be married.
a fiancée – a woman to whom someone is engaged to be married.
lovebirds – an openly affectionate couple.
a soulmate – a person ideally suited to another as a close friend or romantic partner.
Idioms, set expressions
to be a match made in heaven – to be a perfect couple.
to be head over hills in love with sb – to be completely, deeply, and passionately in love with sb.
to be on the rocks- to be having problems in a relationship.
to be on the same wavelength – share the same attitudes, and understand each other very well.
to be out of one’s league – someone or something is too good or expensive for someone to have.
to have a crush on sb – to have a strong, often temporary, romantic attraction or infatuation for sb.
to have a soft spot for sb – be fond of or affectionate towards; like.
to go the extra mile for someone – to make a special effort or do more than expected to help or please someone.
to go through a rough patch – to experience a difficult or challenging time.
to play hard to get – to pretend to be less interested in someone or something than you actually are, in order to make the other person try harder to win your attention or affection.
to tie the knot – to get married.
More phrasal verbs
To fall for sb – to begin to have romantic feelings for sb.
To fall out – to argue, to fight.
To hit it off – to quickly become good friends with someone or get along really well right from the start.
To hit on sb – to show romantic or sexual interest.
To lead sb on – to make someone believe you like them more than you actually do.
To make out – to kiss.
To set sb up – to arrange a date for someone else.
Vocabulary with translation
Vocabulary with translation
Nouns, nouns expressions
a dating app – приложение/сайт знакомств
a blind date – свидание вслепую
chemistry – «химия», любовная страсть
a green/red flag – зеленый/красный флаг (хорошие/плохие знаки, признаки)
ghosting – гостинг, резкое прекращение общения без объяснения причин (от слова ghost – «призрак»)
love at first sight – любовь с первого взгляда
matchmaking – сводничество
Verbs, phrasal verbs
to ask sb out – позвать кого-л. на свидание
to break up/split up – разойтись, расстаться
to cheat on sb – изменить кому-л.
To court sb – ухаживать за кем-л.
to date sb – встречаться с кем-л.
to dump sb – расстаться с кем-л., бросить кого-л.
to get on – сойтись, хорошо ладить с кем-л.
to get to know sb – познакомиться с кем-л.
to go out with sb – встречаться с кем-л., быть вместе
to hug sb – обнять кого-л.
to propose to sb – сделать кому-л. предложение
Verbal expressions
to be in love with sb – быть влюбленным в кого-л.
to be on good terms – сойтись, хорошо ладить с кем-л.
to fall in love with sb – влюбить в кого-л.
to be engaged – быть помолвленными
to get divorced – развестись
to get in touch – начать общаться
to get married – пожениться
to go on a date – пойти на свидание
to have an affair – завести интрижку, роман на стороне
to have a fling – завести несерьезный роман, интрижку
to have a lot in common – иметь много общего
to hold hands – держаться за урки
to lose touch – перестать общаться
People in relationship
an acquaintance – знакомый/ая
a crush – возлюбленный
an ex – бывший/ая
a fiancé – жених
a fiancée – невеста
lovebirds – влюбленные
a soulmate – родственная душа
Idioms, set expressions
to be a match made in heaven – быть идеальной парой
to be head over hills in love with sb – быть по уши влюбленным/ой
to be on the rocks – испытывать проблемы в отношениях
to be on the same wavelength – быть на одной волне
to be out of one’s league – (о партнёре) быть выше уровнем, не подходить, быть “не по зубам”
to have a crush on sb – быть влюбленным в кого-л.
to have a soft spot for sb – быть неравнодушным к кому-л.
to go the extra mile for someone – to make a special effort or do more than expected to help or please someone.
to go through a rough patch – проходить через сложный период в отношениях
to have a crush on sb – влюбиться в кого-л.
to play hard to get – притворяться недоступным
to tie the knot – пожениться
More phrasal verbs
To fall for sb – влюбиться в кого-л.
To fall out – поссориться
To hit it off – подружиться, сойтись, понравиться друг другу, найти общий язык
To hit on sb – «подкатывать» к кому-л., «приударить» за кем-л.
To lead sb on – провести кого-л., сделать вид, что влюблены.
To make out – целоваться
To set sb up – устроить встречу для двух людей, быть сводником